Damenwahl.

You decide who sees you. He is verified before you see him.

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Free. Anonymous. Launching in Berlin.

How it works

  1. He verifies himself.

    ID and liveness check through a certified provider. We never store the document — only the result.

  2. You choose.

    Only you see profiles. Only you decide who gets to see you at all. No profile required, no photo needed.

  3. You match.

    Only then do you become visible — to exactly one person. When, how much, and whether you chat is up to you.

Why this is safer

For men

Yes, the bar is higher. That is exactly why it works: women are here because they know who is not. Verify yourself and get on the list.

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Questions

Is it free?

For women: yes, permanently. For men there will be premium features later.

Why do only men have to verify?

Because the risk is not distributed symmetrically. We are building the app around that reality.

What happens to the ID?

Nothing on our side. A specialised provider runs the check; we only receive the result.

When does it start?

As soon as enough women in Berlin are on the list. That is what this page is for.

Only Berlin?

At launch, yes. Density beats reach.